My Father William C. Groff Jr., was born to Wm.C Groff
Sr. and Jane Brown Groff in St. Louis Mo.
He graduated from Beaumont High School.According to the yearbook
and newspaper articles my Father was a gifted athlete. He
was a left handed baseball pitcher. Dad was down in
the minor leagues when called to duty by the U.S.Army.
He was inducted into the Army at Jefferson Barracks in
St. Louis Mo. Later he was stationed at Portreath A.F.
Base in England and then Honnington A.F. Base, also in
England. He became a T/SGT during that time.
During that time he also met my mother who is British
and was in the R.A.F. Mother had missed her ride back
to Portreath and was walking back to base when my
Father and a truckload of G.I.s pulled up and offered
her a ride. Mother was a little nervous about joining
them and my Father told her to ride up front with him.
My Father asked her name and when she replied Kathleen
he said "Ok,its Kay then."
My Father's job, according to military accounts, was to
move trucks and artillary throughout Germany, including
June 6th -- D Day. He often went to where he was moving
the artillary as well as maping out routes on paper.
Both my mother and my Father had requested leave June
1st through June 4th, 1944. They requested and were
granted this leave well in advance since it took 6
month's to get the paper work through as my mother is
British. Their leave was not cancelled as not to raise
any suspician about June 6th, D Day. They were married
in a beautiful ceremony on June 2nd, 1944. My mother in
a beautiful borrowed wedding dress and my Father in
uniform. My mother's family and family friends gave up
their ration cards to make this a beautiful day for
them both. My Father and his buddies were immediately
called back to base as was my mother, due to the
upcoming D Day.
I really have no information about that time other
than the fact that my Father was at Normandy on D Day
plus 3. My mother's brother, a British soldier, gave
his life on Juno Beach.
Time continued on. My grandparents home had been
partially bombed and they were very heavily rationed.
One day my Father sent a U.S. Army truck with food to
my Grandparents home. They were overwhelmed and shared
with all of the neighbors.
I was born on June 16,1945 and my Father was still in
England with my mother. My Father stayed as long as he
could and then the inevitable happened and he was one
of the last shipped back to the U.S., leaving us
behind. My British Grandparents had noticed that my
Father seemed quite ill. He was coughing constantly
and loosing weight. My Father was 6'3" and only
weighed 139 lbs.
When my Father returned to the U.S. he was admitted to
Jefferson Barracks Hospital. Where it was confirmed
that he had T.B. He was far to ill to be cared for at
Jefferson Barracks and was sent to a Veterans hospital
in Excelsior Springs, close to Kansas City Mo.
My mother and I came to the U.S. with other English
warbrides and children on the Queen Mary to New York.
From there we took the train to Union Station in St.
Louis. There we were met by my American Grandparents
and my Father's 3 sisters and 1 brother. They had to
tell my mother the awful truth about how ill my Father
was. We went to live with them.
My mother was truly heartbroken and went to see my
Father as soon as possible. When she saw him she could
clearly see that he was dying. She begged the doctors
to give my Father the new vaccine and cure for T.B.,
but they told her it was far to late. Maybe if He had
come some sooner, there may have been a chance. The
day my Father died he refused to take communion,
knowing that it meant iminent death. My mother gently
persuaded him to do so.
Later that evening the doctors and nurses insisted that
my mother go back to the home where she was staying,
and get some rest. They promised to call her and mom was
staying within walking distance. Everyone made a mistake,
and in a few hours the hospital called my mother and told
her that my Father had passed away. My mother ran out in
the dark and a terriable rainstorm to the hospital. She
was met by an orderly who simply said "your Husband is
dead". My mother was 23 years old. She so wanted the
orderly to be wrong. She begged to see my Father. The
orderly walked her down the hall to a room and pulled a
sheet off my Father's dead body. He had fought hard to
live and it was a terriable shock for my mother to see
him that way.
My mother brought my Father back to St.Louis by train.
The casket was draped with an American flag. For the 5 hour
train trip my mother sat by the casket with her hand and head
resting gently upon it. When my mother and Father returned
to St. Louis,2 of my Father's sisters had removed and burned
all of my Father's things. Stating to my mother that
"those things " would only upset her.
After the funeral, my Father was buried in a private cemetery
and my mother did not receive the flag from his casket.
My Father received several letters of commendation from
his commanding officers, which my mother had taken to
the hospital. So I now have them. I hope that someday
my aunt, my Father's sister will give me his medals.
Right before my Father passed away, the V.A. offered to
grant him one last wish. His wish was to see me, his
daughter. So the V.A. sent some people to my
Grandparents home to make a 2-minute movie of me
waving goodbye to my Father. In that 2 minutes, I
showed my huge stuffed animal that was a lamb, as I
was his "little lamb." I also showed him some dolls
and a big silver airplane that I could peddle around.
Then I waved my last goodbye.
My husband, Don, had that movie made into a video. It's
very sad to watch. I also have my Father's Bulova
watch, that my mother was wearing when my Father died.
The watch band has been made into a bracelet for me to
pass on to my daughter. I had the watch refurbished
and had my husband's initials engraved right below my
Father's, leaving room for my son's initials when it
is passed on to him.
I thank every Veteran and their families for allowing
me to have such a good life. I Honor my Father's
memory every day.
-- Beverly Groff Goodlin --